Thank Goodness For Advocacy

The great thing I noticed from reading Autistic self-advocates is how open minded they are and how they (we) consider issues of equality in all ways. In other words, these people are not just fighting for their own rights, but also for everyone's. You'll see essays against racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, transphobia, ageism, and pretty much any other -ism out there.

That's pretty much how I live my life, and in the same vein, how I run this blog. It's always been the way I've thought - justice for all - and I wonder if it's just a facet of how a very logical Autistic brain works or maybe the open mindedness is one of our traits.

I've always played Devil's advocate and try to understand both sides of a story. I've always made friends with the underdogs and people no one else wanted to be friends with. Maybe because I related to them or because they just accepted me for who I am. 

 It doesn't really matter, I'm just impressed and grateful.

So I'd like to say thanks to all of those who fight daily against injustice. Your passion, energy and devotion are commendable. Because of you dedicated people, we all benefit. Thank you for standing up and speaking for those of us who cannot, for whatever reason.

Thank you to everyone who reads and learns more about all issues. We don't always have to agree, but a simple, "I hear you and you matter" make all the difference.

Thank you to all those who have opened their eyes to a new way of thinking and changed any harmful or negative beliefs or actions. Whether it's something like not using the r-word or not engaging in abusive behaviour, what matters is that you are moving forward in a new light and trying to be a better person. Don't be too hard on yourself for past mistakes.

Lastly, I'm so grateful this community exists. I've gotten to know so many amazing people and learned so much. Thank you!

How Not To Become Overwhelmed With Life

Ask for help.





There, this post is done.






lol, ok, seriously though. It's true.


I'm writing this post for all the people who have helped us along the way. Help has come from places I didn't even know existed. Help came in the form of close friends and not so close friends. Some help has been free, some help has been paid for. Some help was expected, some wasn't.

The point is it doesn't always appear in the ways you think it should/would. It doesn't always come from the people you most want it from, but if you ask and keep an open mind, it will come. Don't say no to offers, however small! In general, people want to help you!

You don't need to make excuses for needing help either. If you are a special needs parent, you have more on your plate. Maybe you don't trust anyone else to watch over your child, but you can stay with them and let someone else wash the dishes. Or let someone cook you a meal. There are lots of options if you think outside the box.

That's how not to become overwhelmed with life.

Then, when all is said and done, don't forget to say THANK YOU!